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People will tell you that your high school years make up the best four years of your life. And then when you’re headed off to college, they say your college years are the best four years of your life. So, I’m here to tell you that high school and college equate to the best eight years ever. However, in order to reach the final majestic years, it’s crucial that you conquer the (sometimes) brutal application process; and since you’ve most likely already taken the SAT’s/ACT’s, your next step involves actually considering where you want attend. I know, you’re either the person who knows exactly where they want to go or you’re like me, a baffled wanderer that spent so much time focusing on perfecting his or her profile that once ambushed with the time to apply, it seemed to come out of nowhere.

So, seniors, here are a few tips to help you crawl out of that hole and pinpoint just where to begin.

1. What’s your major? Or, what field are you leaning toward?

Scary question – I’m aware – but choosing can actually be quite simple. Make a list of the things you do during your free time and your favorite subjects in school. Do you live that book worm life? Do you keep up with Psychology Today or The Economist? Do you constantly re-decorate your room or photograph everything with the potential to be in National Geographic? Are you an avid blogger? How about a vlogger? Do you happen to obsess over fluctuating stock prices or do you get sucked into the world of science with the latest bio-tech advancements? Grace Coddington fans, is Vogue your bible? Maybe you are infatuated with the military and its affiliations, and in that case, you can actually join any of their many branches or check out military schools.

Reflect on the kind of person you are. Are you a right or left brained thinker? Are you inclined to thinking creatively or logically? Analyze your personality – introverted or extroverted? Do you prefer routine or flexibility, serenity or a good dose of adrenaline? Do you thrive when under pressure? These are all pointers to single out what area you’d be best at. If you need further help, Google a couple of career quizzes. They are fairly helpful at underscoring your strongest traits!

2. Think about school size and location.

Now that you have an idea of what it is you want to do, check out schools that specialize in those fields. This will allow you to really excel in your track and use the ample resources many colleges offer. Find out the college rankings – do the schools you are looking at meet your prospects? Make sure that academically, the schools you pencil into your list meet or exceed your expectations.

Next, consider the location. Keep in mind that there are infinite things to consider with location. Each place has its own culture, tradition, and WEATHER- ha, that’s a big one. I certainly did not consider weather when choosing Boston. Ask yourself these questions: are you comfortable with what you have now or do you want something different? Do you prefer the city, suburb, or the country? How about a place that transitions through the four seasons? Or would you favor a place that experiences hot/cold extremes year-round? (If you are by any chance thinking about South Florida, yes, it offers fabulous tanning weather all year, but its humidity calls for the ultimate death of hair).

How about size? Think of your current high school and decide whether you want something similar, larger, or smaller. Most importantly, do you want to leave your hometown, and does that entail moving across the country or moving one hour away? Location is an excellent way to narrow down your choices. When you finish your list of schools, look up their acceptance ratings and classify them as either “safety schools” (the ones you’re sure you’ll get into) or “reach schools” (the ones that you think your chances of being accepted are slim, but possible).

3. Apply and visit!

Apply, apply, apply to all of the schools on your list! Yes, some have dreadful supplements; yes, some require multiple essays; and yes, others require additional forms. But take on the task – you will thank yourself later. Visit the schools if you can! Admission officers like to see that you are interested and while you’re there, schedule an interview! Call the admissions office and schedule an appointment beforehand to set up an interview on the day of your campus tour.

If you are unable to visit, set up a phone interview. Also, immediately after you have finished the interview, always remember to snail-mail a brief handwritten “Thank You” letter to your interviewee. “How come?” you ask. Demonstrating manners increases your chances of being remembered during the decision process, and college admission officers they will highly appreciate this minimal effort (which could end up making all the difference!).

4. Do your research.

Once you’ve received your batch of large envelopes, put to use your savvy research skills – you know, the ones you have picked up from social media. Sometimes the slightest details make the biggest difference, such as what financial aid each college offers or takes. Grants? Scholarships? FAFSA? Apply to any opportunity and you’ll be surprised at how cooperative many schools are with your needs.

Aside from finances, look up their student life. How’s their school spirit level? Are there any clubs that look interesting? Is Greek life a major component in their culture? What courses do they have available for your major? Check out their food options and research school reviews from current students. Maybe even revisit the school if you need to, but it is essential to open your mind up to new things and refrain from setting limits on things you have never experienced before. Leaving your comfort zone is the key to getting the best out of any experience, especially this one!

Choosing between 4,000 colleges can sound quite intimidating, but the process is also a great process of self-discovery! It takes self-reflection, exploration, and determination. And don’t forget that wherever you wind up, there are two things every college guarantees: 2:00 a.m. library visits and glorious day naps.

Road Less Traveled
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If you would’ve asked me if I was comfortable doing things entirely by myself 3 years ago, I would’ve very sincerely said “no.” I had always been the type of person who thrived in a group setting, feeling most comfortable surrounded by several of my closest friends. And then I went to college. College is one of the first times in your life that all the choices you make directly affect your future and you are entirely in control of all your decisions. As I quickly approach the end of my senior year, I have come to embrace myself as an individual and have begun hanging out with myself; a concept that really leads you down a path of self-discovery. While trying out this new personal philosophy, I have found several surprisingly simple ways that really allow you to discover more about yourself and the world we live in. If you try out at least one of the below, you will be surprised by what you come to find!

  1. Live with an entirely new crop of people. Obviously some safety considerations must be made but that is why there are websites like Uloop.com which match you up with (hopefully not sketchy) students. What better way to expand out of your comfort zone and meet new people. Seeing yourself acclimating to the ways of others really shows you a lot about yourself. Every person has several different facets of their personality that come out in certain situations. When you surround yourself with new people, you will come to discover facets of yourself you might not have been originally cognizant of.
  2. Go sit in a coffee shop, without headphones, to do your homework. Be in the moment, listen, breathe, watch. We often forget that we are just like everyone else going through our day-to-day. Coffee shops are full of driven and inspired people, and you will be surprisingly more productive.
  3. Don’t wear headphones in public. Seriously. Don’t cut yourself out from the world around you! There have been many times when I have met some of the most interesting people and have had incredible conversations while riding the bus or while on a plane. Everyone has a story they’d love to tell. You’ll be surprised by the kinds of things you’ll learn.
  4. Walk. Everywhere. When you’re on foot, you are more apt to see things that you typically would’ve cruised by if in a car or bus. There are so many little gems in life that we are too busy to realize. Something as quaint as a family owned boutique or bakery can be found tucked away in an alley and often offer unexpectedly incredible goodies. A friend of mine literally stops and smells the roses. We often miss the little pleasures in life with our busy schedules.
  5. If you’re really feeling adventurous, (like me), spend a month in Europe without anyone you know. This last tip is what I will be writing about in future posts. I will be graduating early and have decided to spend a month touring Europe before I begin working fulltime. This year has been one of serious change for me and as a reward to myself for all the hard work put in through these 4 years of school, what better way to do so then to spend 30 days in a place so full of culture and history. I will be embracing every day. I will be embracing my youth. I will be seizing my youth; carpe juvenis.